Kiss a Women

Consider it long sexy foreplay, an entrée or not. Women are sensual creatures. Yes, we are!! We love to be touched, kissed, hugged and held. A man that understands this is one above many.

The types of kisses are many: butterfly, which are light almost there; pecks, also light usually given on the cheek; playful, self explanatory; long drugging kisses that make us weak, akin to the French kiss.

A woman’s body holds a lifetime of discovery and pleasure. If you love and adore your partner then exploring and finding her treasures are wonderful gifts.Let's set the stage;lights, music and mood. Music is always a good accompaniment, something soft and sexy that you will both feel comfortable with.

Let’s start with her face. Kiss her brow, peppering from one side to the next. We are just using light kisses. Then move to her eyebrows, eyes, nose, cheeks and chin. Keep eye contact with her so that you can see her reactions. Does she seem to be enjoying your kisses? Are her eyes closed? Is she leaning into you? Is she making any sounds that might give you a clue?Kiss the side of her neck; nibble along the cord; place some behind her ears also around her ears. Lick the inside of her ear lightly. Chew gently, on her earlobe. Ask her. Say, “Do you like that?” We love that you are expressing your concern and not just rushing. Take your time. Take the time. It's all about pleasuring.

Gently, raise the hair away from the back of her neck and kiss her with some playful and some firm kisses there. This is such a sensitive spot for some women. Breathe in and catch her scent.We’ll concentrate on her mouth now. Instead of rushing in to part her lips and stick your tongue down her throat; consider her lips. See the shape. Marvel at it. Lightly trace the outline of her top and then bottom lip with the tip of your index finger. Then follow the path with the tip of your tongue. Next, pick a corner of her lip and indulge in gently nibbling, tugging, licking and sucking on her lip. Use the full wetness without being sloppy, of your tongue to lave and explore the fullness of her lips. Continue into the inner part of her mouth by touching, tasting licking and making love to her mouth.Now, this might be it for you both. You're hot and bothered. You’ve brought the house down and must get to other things. Quickly.

We interrupt this delicious foreplay for some announcements.

Let's take a short break so that you can catch your breath.Fun Facts and Statistics

39,897 people gathered in the Plaza de la Constitución, in Mexico City, Mexico, on February 14, 2009, to beat the record for the most people kissing simultaneously.

We kiss under the mistletoe at Christmas.

X”s at the end of a letter means that we're sending the person kisses.

"Passionate kissing burns 6.4 calories a minute. A Hershey’s kiss contains 26 calories, which takes five minutes of walking–or about four minutes of kissing–to burn off".I continue….with her shoulders, feather them with kisses also into the hollow where her neck and shoulder meet. Slowly, move your way down her arm until you get to the hollow (elbow). Remember, you're not in a race. Slow is good. Now, give it some attention by placing a dusting of kisses there.Move to her fingers. Kiss between each finger and flick your tongue against each one of them. Then suck on them one at a time while looking into her eyes. Very erotic.

Turn her hand over, palm up. Lightly trace the marks on the palm of her hand. Just whisper soft. It feels ticklish to some. Lightly brush kisses in a circular pattern into the palm. Also use your tongue to flicker into the center of the palm. If you are following through on all of these instructions she should be wet and thinking of what’s to come. Look into her eyes and show her the wanting.I’ll avoid the erogenous spots since we should know what to do there.

Place some kisses along the back of the shoulders and along her spine to the two hollows above her bottom. Pay attention to her hips. Her belly button what a place to nurture.On the inside of her thighs, it’s ah, so sensitive there. Kiss her, lick her, and stroke her. The back of her knees are so sweet.

The final spot that some women enjoy is having their feet- toes kissed and licked.

Guys, that’s how you entice her into wanting more. Ladies tell us did he make you want more? Did he touch you in all (ahem) the right places?

Guys use your imagination. I’ve given you a wealth of info. Every woman is unique. Kissing is one way of paying homage to a woman and her body. Enjoy!

Now, don't be shy!! Go on and leave me a comment. Tell it like it is.Sources

http://facts.randomhistory.com/2009/01/22_kissing.html

http://www.kissingknowhow.com

http://community.guinnessworldrecords.com/_Most-People-Kissing-Simultaneously/blog/196578/7691.html

Dating is the time for first impressions

that last, so you need to get the important things right. Kissing is one of them. If you're a woman who really likes someone, you want to make sure that when he kisses you, he will want to do it again and again. What you're about to read is a take on this subject from a man's perspective. As someone who has kissed a number of women not long after the first date, these are my reflections and thoughts on what made some kisses very ordinary, while others, spectacular.

And I have to say ... statistically speaking, the enjoyable kisses were about 5 percent of them all. The rest were very ordinary, even unpleasant. Maybe the women that I've kissed are not representative of the entire female population, but in my opinion, there are certainly a lot of women out there who have no idea what to do. So here are some important things to remember:

Before You Even Think About Kissing a Man

Make sure your lips are soft and warm. There's nothing more unpleasant than a passionate moment that ends abruptly because you've rubbed your lips on someone else's scales. Use a lip balm to keep your lips soft and exfoliate them with a toothbrush and warm water.

Make sure you smell good. This means choosing your perfumes and body powders carefully. There's nothing worse than kissing someone who smells like grandma. If you want to be sensual, think 'young and fresh' when selecting these things. Also, look after yourself and bathe regularly, because body odour or stale perspiration is a real turn-off. As for your breath ... need I say more?

Doing It

The song lyrics that say "it's in his kiss" apply just as much to women as to men. A man will read how much he means to you by the way you kiss him. If he's looking at you for a long term prospect, he will also get a clear impression of what he's in for in the way of sensual delights or otherwise. You want to make sure it counts because 'how it feels when you kiss' is high on a man's priority list that determines how he feels about you.

Whatever you do, don't purse your lips when kissing. He will think you might be an ice-queen or be reminded of grandma's kisses. If you get to the point where you want to kiss a man then let him know that you're a warm blooded woman. Make it count or don't bother. You need to open your mouth or he might shut his heart. This doesn't mean get straight into swapping saliva and slipping tongues - that might be a bit overwhelming and send a different message. But soft extended lips and an open mouth is where you need to start.

Gently touch your lips to his. Taste and savour the shape and texture of his mouth. Roll your lips over his and gently suck one of them or let him do this to you. If he's kissing your teeth or pressing your lips against your teeth, you have a serious problem. Put your lips out there! Also, keep your eyes closed or your man will think you're just putting up with it.

After that, all you need is to do what feels right. Take it as it comes, but let the man lead. That might be as far as you both want to go. On the other hand, your mutual body language may be telling you it's time to kick it up a notch. The signs for this are usually heavier breathing, wrapping arms more intensely around each other, more kissing around the face or neck and a sense of urgency and desire. This will send you into the sexiest kiss of them all - the French kiss.

The French Kiss beats all the others for sheer sexiness and is a sure way to fan the flames of desire. This is where you introduce your tongues. He will let you know when he wants that, but you must also feel ready for it to go there. Stick your tongue into his mouth and gently touch the tip of your tongue to his. Stroke his tongue with yours, brushing sideways, while letting him know you want this by having your hands or arms around the back of his neck. What you do after that will depend entirely on how you feel about each other.

The perfect kiss comes in many forms, from nervous pecks on the cheek to supercharged sloppy wet kisses. It all depends on you and your partner and the dynamics of the moment. For some, a kiss might be a way of saying "I love you"; to others, it might simply be saying "let's enjoy ourselves and see how it feels".

A kiss is not everything, but when it really counts, you don't want to blow it.

Kiss to never forget

If you kiss a girl that you sort of are attracted to, then your kiss will just be ok. However if you?re kissing a girl that you?re really into, then it will really be very special. An emotional connection is a must for an amazing kiss. When you combine the physical pleasure of a kiss along with the emotional pleasure of the intimate moment, that?s when the magic happens.

Do you want to know how to blow a kiss with a girl? Get nervous. Want to know how to kiss girls the right way? Relax! You need to reach that comfort level where you both are relaxed. If you?re nervous it will show when you kiss her. The tension will show through and will make you stiff. That?s the total opposite of what a great kisser should be. When you are too uptight about the result of the kiss, about whether you?re doing it right or wrong, you will not enjoy the moment. She?ll know your tension and it will bring down the level of intensity. Just relax and go with the flow.

The best kisses seem to go on for an eternity. You have to forget everything going on in your world for a few moments, clear your mind of everything except for your girl?s breath, responses, noises, reactions and her body against yours. It can be quite difficult to focus on her if you?re in a noisy place, being seen by others or just in an uncomfortable position. Let me give you an example, we?ve all known that one of the hottest places to kiss a girl is in a car, right? Well, it?s also one of the most uncomfortable places to kiss. Also, if you?re in an uncomfortable place or too self conscious about your kissing, you?ll fly back down to earth and the moment will be gone. Just clear your mind the next time you kiss her and let nothing else bother you.

The best kissers don?t just have one way of kissing and that?s it. If you want to learn how to kiss a girl the right way, you need to learn how to adapt to her kinds of kisses. Girls are different and you must be free to adapt to each individual?s style. If your kissing style consists of only two kisses, the regular kiss and the French kiss, then it may be time to add to your arsenal. You need to change up the pace of your kisses and the pressure. Don?t always kiss her on the mouth, don?t be afraid to venture on to the neck, even nibble the ear a bit. Get creative, she?ll like that.

The best kisses of all time have rhythm. They start slowly, gently then increase in speed and intensity. They allow a pause for taking a breath and looking at each other?s eyes. When you think about a nice kissing session, think of it as a dance. A dance of the lips. It?s very important to remember that kisses, just like dances, must have a rhythm, a beat. Nothing is worse that kissing someone so intense they don?t give you a chance to breathe, they suffocate you. You don?t want to come across that way, give plenty of room for breathing, take momentary breaks, look at each other, and change up the pace. Be unpredictable. Allow things to warm up, and then cool down. Take the time to reconnect with each other.

If you are totally relaxed, in the moment with someone you really care about then you?re in for some good kissing sessions. You will no longer wonder how to kiss girls because you?re already an expert at it. Just remember to find that natural rhythm and expression and you?ll find that your kisses will be so much more enjoyable and intense.

How to kiss a Women

There are a lot of reasons why it is important to learn how to kiss a woman. For most women, the first kiss is a colossal factor in determining whether or not the relationship can be taken to the next level. If you don't do the first kiss properly, you ruin your chances of having her as your girlfriend.

A woman's primary erogenous zone are her lips. Every man should know how to leave a sensual impression when kissing women. If you are a great kisser, you get a colossal chance of kissing something else later on.

A tempting kiss does not only mean learning how to move your tongue inside a woman's mouth. To be a good kisser, you need to use your entire mouth. It includes your tongue, lips, teeth, and other parts of your body. Learn how to kiss a woman properly and get a woman to like you back through these tips.

1. Give her a hand. How and where you place your hands while you kiss her is very important. Firmly but lightly, hold her face while gradually slipping your tongue inside her mouth. Suck her lips very gently. Then stroke and squeeze the area under her breasts only if she doesn't push you away. This will yield to a very tantalizing feeling which will make her ask for more.

2. Be a detailed observer. If you want to know how to kiss a woman, you need to be attentive to how she kisses you. Most women kiss the way that they would want to be kissed. Be guided carefully by her tongue. Does she desire it soft or rough or a little of both? Does she sink her teeth into your lips? The way she kisses is probably how she wants you to kiss her.

3. Make full use of her lips. The lips play a very vital role in making love. Lightly suck on her lips. Do this softly and one at a time. Focus so you don't get too rough. Try licking her upper and lower lips in a very slow motion if you are in a ticklish mood. After wetting her lips, move your lips around her mouth.

4. Suck on her tongue. The most effective way of getting her in the mood is to suck her tongue. Your mouth can be a lightly drawing vacuum. Try sucking her tongue the way that you would want to suck her down there. Most women catch on quickly. If you want her to return the favor without being too offensive, start by letting her suck on your finger.

5. Observe other parts of her body. You're not confined to kiss her only on the lips. Move on from her mouth and kiss her eyes, face, neck, breasts, or the spot behind her ears.

Being creative when kissing a woman can yield a wide range of beneficial results. You can please her as long as you are willing enough to try anything.

If your kissing skills have never been complimented before or just because you screwed up your first kiss, you are losing your chances to date attractive women, this is the perfect time to practice your kissing skills.

Kiss Women

This is a rather interesting question. The title may be a bit confusing. You know why? Because there is no right way to kiss a woman. Just like there isn't the right way to the approaching girl thing.

I know you have probably heard and read about the best ways to kiss women. I remember when I used to read about those best ways. Well, there are no best ways.

There is only courage

If you have the courage to kiss a woman, you don’t need any particular way. Ways are for people that are scared and looking for some kind of trick to kiss women with. I remember how it went for me in the past. I used to learn about these tricks on kissing women. I was actually terrified of kissing a woman on the date.

Almost none of these tricks worked

Why? Because I had no confidence to just come close to her and kiss her. I resorted to these sneaky tactics and usually made a fool of myself. Now that I am much more comfortable around women, I don’t need any tricks to kiss them.

I didn’t even notice how I dropped all that technique stuff with women. I just started getting face to face with my fears and leaning in toward the women. It was not easy first. I took small steps.

I first got comfortable with getting close to a woman’s face without even kissing her. I sometimes did this as a tease, and sometimes I just did it to break out of my comfort zone. It was mostly successful.

And, as time passed and I got more experience, I just went on kissing more and more women without needing any weird way to do it. It took time, but in the end, it was worth it.Get confidence anyway

Even after saying all this, I suggest that you get some more confidence in order to speed up your development. I didn't do this, and that's why it took me more time. Try this quiz to see how can you get confidence faster.

How to KISS Better

Learning how to kiss better is important, but it?s pretty difficult to find very many good guides with simple kissing tips for guys. That first kiss, in particular, can be nerve-wracking, which is why a lot of guys prefer to learn how to be a better kisser before the time for that first kiss is suddenly upon them.

You can be prepared to wow your kissing partner with your mad skills by following these seven kissing tips for guys.

How to Kiss Better Tip #1: Take it Slow
There is nothing worse than a guy who rushes in to plant one on his date, and then rushes through the whole kissing session. Slow things down and remember that kissing is supposed to be sensual and fun. Besides, if you take it slowly, it will make it look like you know what you are doing.

Why would you even want to rush a kiss? Kissing is all about emotion and passion. Take your time and savor every second of the experience.

How to Kiss Better Tip #2: Practice
If you read some kissing tips for guys, and then run out and find someone to kiss without putting in any practice, it is very likely that you are going to come across as tense and awkward as you try to remember and implement what you have learned. This will not be natural and is no way to let it flow, which is what you really want to do.

So, while you might laugh at the idea, putting in a little practice with a pillow or the back of your hand really will pay off. Practicing will help you get used to the movements and assist in them becoming second nature. Practicing will also help you be less nervous and will help you feel better prepared and more confident.

Once you start kissing an actual person, you still want to remember that practice make perfect. Everyone kisses a little differently, so practicing kissing your partner will allow you to get used to the feel of their lips and their kissing style, and will also help you learn what they enjoy.

How to Kiss Better Tip #3: Change Things Up
Change things up every once in awhile by varying your technique. This will keep your kissing sessions from becoming routine or stuck in a rut and will surprise your partner, keeping things fresh and exciting. This will likely encourage them to kiss you more, since they will want to see what other tricks you have up your sleeve.

Of course, you don?t want to get all crazy and be constantly changing techniques. This can take away the intrigue and could lead to you switching things up just when your partner was starting to really get into it. Changing your technique too often can also come across as sloppy or like you don?t really know what you are doing. You want to change things up just enough to show your partner that you enjoy kissing them and actually are putting some thought into it.

How to Kiss Better Tip #4: Get a Little Closer
One of the kissing tips for guys that some guys don?t seem to get is that kissing is not just about the lips and the mouth: It?s about the whole body. For example, if you are standing completely apart and just leaning in for your lips to meet, that isn?t very personal or passionate. You want to feel close to your kissing partner. To achieve this, hold them close to you or touch them on the back or face. You can even just hold her hands ? just make it feel intimate.

How to Kiss Better Tip #5: Break the Silence
The time between kisses or during kisses can get a little weird if there is absolutely no noise. A completely quiet room does not make for comfortable kissing and can make you or your partner start to feel nervous. You can fix this by having some background music playing, which will also help to set the scene.

You should also consider talking a little during kissing. Saying things that let them know you are really into them will make them feel special and will show that you are not just kissing them, you are thinking about them as well.

How to Kiss Better Tip #6 Move It
Kissing that stays just at the lips can get boring after awhile. Don?t be afraid to explore and drop some butterfly kisses on her cheeks or work your way a little down her neck or to the tops of her shoulders. The neck is a great place to kiss, as it is super sensitive and will give her a tingling sensation that is sure to turn her on.

How to Kiss Better Tip #7: Pay Attention
No guide to kissing tips for guys is complete without including a note about paying attention to your partner?s response. This is crucial. Pay attention to how she responds to each technique you use. This will let you know what you should do more of and what you might want to remove from your repertoire.

Following these seven simple kissing tips for guys will help you prepare for your next big moment and will assist you in stepping up to the plate with confidence and with your nerves in check. Remember, kissing is supposed to be fun, so relax and enjoy it!

Kiss Confidently

Have you ever experienced that feeling during a date where you just know you need to make a move on the girl you are out with, but you didn't know how to kiss her in the right way or were nervous of blowing it?

It is something that a lot of men will deal with at some point. Actually, I used to suffer from the same problem. I would be able to get girls to go out with me, but I could never seal the deal when it came time to take things physical.

Firstly, if you can get a girl to see you and you have a hunch that she might even be attracted to you, then you are much farther along than a lot of men. You only need to up the ante and kiss the girl.

At the bottom of it all, the situation is all in your head. You may be thinking "How can I know for certain if she likes me?" or "What if she rejects me?".

None of this really matters.

There are no fool-proof ways to find out if a woman likes you or not.

Instead move quickly to determine if she is the sort of woman you want to spend time with or not.

So you have to kiss her at a decent time like at the end of a date. With a bit of practice, you can just feel when it is time to kiss her. Things will just feel right and you will know inside what to do.

When you go in to kiss her, one of two things will happen.

One, you two will start to make out and have all kinds of exhilarating fun.

Or, she rejects our kiss. If this happens, be glad! You discovered quickly that she isn't worth your time and you can now focus your energy on other girls.

Just brush it off with something like, "Don't blame a guy for trying now." or "Hey, take it as a compliment. " Then finish up the date fast. Don't make the situation weird, just act like the two of you are friends.

Then everything is left to her. If she begins to regret her decision, let her be the one to call you. But let her initiate the first move. You should be spending time with girls who do like you romantically.

Let me share a personal example of how to kiss a woman.

I had a date with a woman who I really liked a lot. Every now and again, you meet a girl that just makes you nervous with excitement at the thought of hooking up with her. This woman was a perfect example of one of those.

I took her out to lunch at one of my favorite places in the city. After driving her home, she asked me to come up to show me her artwork. We relaxed on her couch and talked.

Then everything got quiet.

The time was just right to make my move. I didn't have a clue how she would react to it, but I gave it a shot. I allowed it to get a little awkward for the heck of it, then I said, "I just really want to kiss you now. " Then I leaned over and kissed her.

At first there was some hesitation, but she quickly let go to enjoy the moment. It's critical not to throw in the towel at the first sign of resistance. She will let you know if she doesn't want to kiss. But you will probably find she will put up a little resistance, but that will quicly melt away.

Also, take the lead with the making out. A lot of girls will try to do what they are accustomed to the first few times you make out. Be firm and direct with your kissing and she will relax and let you set the tone.

After that, I gazed into her eyes and told her "You have no idea how long I've wanted to do that. " That lit her up and we went on to have a lot of fun.

So that is how to kiss a girl. Yes, it can be hard to put it all on the line and risk rejection, but that's part of the game.

If you liked this article, please also check out Guide to Kissing Girls, Flirting with Girls, and Turning On a Woman.

Subtle yet effective strategies to getting a kiss

Don't be embarassed to read this. Whether you've never kissed someone at all or it's just been too long since you've been with someone or even if you're with somebody now, you can really benefit from the tips I'm going to offer you. You might notice I have not made this hub gender-specific as actually most signals for kissing are universal-- with a few exceptions of course.

The only truly important context for kissing is whether or not this person likes you, as in likes you likes you. The moment before the kiss you don't have to be incredibly funny, serious, charming, or romantic. In fact, hold off on being romantic if this is going to be the first kiss you are to share with this person. In can create a lot of awkward pressure that too often foils chances to kiss or be kissed.

In fact, awkward pressure is inevitable for most kisses (assuming the kissers are NOT lecherous, intoxicated, or have not kissed before). The trick is to channel the right signals through the awkward pressure of the moment. Many advise to maintain eye contact, but I say this is very unsubstantial. The most powerful signal to send is to look at the person's eyes and then the lips and towards the entire facial expression. A little smile or smirk after this well show the person you're thinking about kissing them. You have a chance to interpret whether or not they're open to kissing you based on whether they keep they body language "open" or even mimic what you do. By this time, one of three things will happen. First, should they initiate some kind of subtle touch like touching your elbow lightly or stroke your hair-- you're golden. Obviously, if they go for an embrace they REALLY want you to kiss them. But perhaps say the person doesn't have an obvious reaction. They just stand there doing nothing and their feelings are indiscernable. Initiate a touch like one previously mentioned. If the person doesn't pull back and doesn't "retaliate" you can go for the kiss. If they do, you know quite well this person doesn't want to kiss you! Nonetheless, it is substantially less embarassing to get shut out of touching an elbow or hair than it is for someone to literally duck from you or push against you. Finally, if the person has turned away, crossed their arms, or otherwise "closed" their body language it is quite easy to say this person doesn't want to kiss you.

Don't worry too greatly about how to posture your lips. You only need to pucker a little if at all. Don't sweat over dipping your head to the left or to the right. Just don't get dizzy! If anything, going to far the left or right may strike the person as really weird. Two people who like eachother and are kissing don't have a problem with how long a kiss is. If one is taking too long, the other might just pull away. Don't take this the wrong way-- take it as a tease. Let it be funny, let it be sweet, and just let it go. Be wary of the tongue kiss. It is truly one of the weirdest and most wonderful ones out there. Save it for another time when you get to kiss more-- or if you're kissing a lot already on this first time... hell, why not? If it doesn't work, let it go. Rememeber you have to give in order to receive and vice versa. You or the other person may find yourself shifting your boundaries outward. This means you're sharing a very good kiss. From thereon, I will not say anything further. Will you have sex? Maybe you can, maybe can't. Should you have sex? Maybe you should, maybe you shouldn't. Judge your individual situation correctly. Know yourself and know the person you're kissing.

When and where do I kiss?

This is what many people have the greatest difficulty. You're ready, and perhaps they're ready, but the atmosphere is not right. Typically, it's easiest to share a kiss in a dark or dimly lit i.e. private place. Kissing is an intimate moment that few people like having voyeurs around. That said, there are some darkly or dimly lit places that DO NOT work. They are actually two of the most stereotypical places to get a kiss. First, the movie theater seldom works out as it is a public place. People come and go as they like and they won't ignore you if you're sitting near or in front of them. It's pricey and uncomfortable as the seats are segmented off from eachother and you might even have to juggle a whole tub of popcorn. If you really started to go off, you don't have adequate space to make out so freely. The second place not to kiss is at the front door. Though it seems appropriate to start or end the date with a kiss at times, you're likely dealing with someone who is coming and going from a place other people also call home. If they live alone it does work fine. But if there are family members or roomates around, they can easily snoop around to see you, even if it may be difficult to see outside into the dark.

What places do work? The most comfortable place to kiss is at home on or near a couch or bed. However, be careful about busting a move near a bed. Your kissing partner may take it as a seriously sexually aggressive move and may be turned off--- or turned on :D. Generally gauge how comfortable they feel in your bedroom when it's just the two of you there, door shut. If in doubt, start with the couch if you can. If the bedroom is the only private place you have access to, start standing up or even from lying on the floor. The next best place to kiss is actually a park. Indeed, a park is also a public place, but it's also much easier to foster some kind of anonymity there. There are many parks that are scarcely used and most parks have some place where you can hide away from the public eye. Guys, just "going for a walk" happens to work really well. Just choose to arrive at a destination where you know you can spend some time alone.

I hope you feel much more confident about your future kissing endeavors. That really is what it comes to: confidence. If you can carry on without feeling totally embarassed, you're doing just fine.

Has it ever happened to you that when you snuggle up to her, she will say ? I do not want to have sex tonight, dear; I have a headache?

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Do you at times have to do a lot of coaxing and persuasion in order to nudge her into sex?

Are you faced with any of the following symptoms ?

(a) 1-2 times per month
(b) Sex becomes a chore
(c) Do not feel intimate after sex
(d) You do not have any sexual fantasies about your partner
(e) It seems only one of you are more keen on sex
(f) There is no sense of adventure or spontaneity in sex
(g) Neither of you are frisky in the bedroom any more

If you have one or more of the above symptoms, you are probably facing the situation of a low-sex marriage.

In whatever category you and your partner find yourself belong to, chances are you may still have experienced your share of sexual rejection in your relationship. You may have had to endure a period of ?drought? when your partner is not in the mood for sex. While some couples do not see this no-sex or low-sex situation as an issue, it can be a cause for concern to others. This is especially so when one party is never in the mood and the other is always quite keen.

If you have this problem of no-sex or not enough sex in your relationship, here are the 6 tips that will help you to improve sexual intimacy

(1) Share sexual expectations

It is necessary that partners discuss with one another their sexual needs and wants particularly in relation to the regularity or frequency aspects. Ask your partner how often and when he or she would like to be intimate. Does he/she prefer making love in the morning or at the end of the day?

Through this exchange of views, both of you may be closer to a common set of expectations than you may think. If there are big differences in these expectations, jointly come up with a plan that can take into consideration each other?s needs and giving some room for compromise.

(2) Recognize each other?s differences in sexual desire

It is very unlikely that your appetite, the amount of sleep you require, how sociable you are and other aspects of your personality will always be perfectly matched with your partner?s. Therefore it is nothing weird or abnormal if you want more or less sex than your partner. A couple must learn not to make this issue a deal-breaker. By seeing this as a very normal sexual issue, you can negotiate your sexual needs and talk about your sex lives in an honest and respectful way. It will then be possible to reclaim the intimacy and closeness you are both missing.

(3) Be respectful to the low sexual desire partner

If you are the one with a higher sex drive level, you have to accept that you may get less sex than you would ideally like. You have to learn not to over-react to a ?no? to sex and accept it respectfully. Avoid sexual bullying, begging or manipulating. This is indeed a very tough act to follow and it helps a lot when the low-desire partner can at the same time be more understanding of the high-desire partner?s needs.

(4) Get to the root of the problem

Remember that you cannot have good sex in a bad relationship. Probe deeper to see if there are any underlying resentment or anger from/towards your partner that act as an obstacle to greater intimacy. Hormonal fluctuations, medication, past sexual trauma, or undiagnosed illness can all have an impact on our sexual desire. Face up to all these issues and look for ways to resolve them. Seek professional help if you are unable to change things on your own.

(5) Strive for greater intimacy

Intimacy in a relationship is not automatic. It must be developed and nurtured through cultivating an environment characterized by mutual trust and respect, deep communication and time-together. You cannot be intimate if you do not talk and spend time with each other. Making your spouse?s needs a priority is an excellent way of breaking down the barriers to a great sex life.

(6) Sometimes have sex even if the mood is not there

If we just wait for the mood to come to have sex, some of us would never have it. This seems contradictory to what I said about learning to accept ?no? to sex. But marriage is all about mutual love and respect and compromise which involves at times giving way to his/her needs. Once you start the ball rolling and just do it, desire and arousal often follow.

For some people, kissing comes as naturally as it appears to be, for the great lovers on the big screen. But for the rest of us, we could probably use some handy tips on kissing, so our kissing techniques are successful in communicating just exactly what we are intending to converse. "You must remember this A kiss is just a kiss. A sigh is just a sigh. The fundamental things apply As time goes by." Beautiful song, but it's a bit misleading. The truth is that a kiss isn't just a kiss. A kiss communicates more in a moment than words can ever say. For a few people, kissing comes as naturally as it appears to be, for the great lovers on the big screen. But for the rest of us, we could maybe use some useful tips on kissing, so our kissing techniques are successful in communicating just exactly what we are intending to converse. Let us look at just a few of the mistakes and that kisser's make, and go onto some simple tips to help you along - Tight puckers. A tightly puckered kiss communicates to the recipient, "This kissing business is really gross, and I'd rather be doing anything else." It robs the moment of intimacy, warmth, and acceptance. One of the primary tips on kissing is that your lips should be loose, soft and relaxed. A gentle pucker is all you need, even if it is just a polite peck on the cheek that says, "I enjoy your company. You're special to me." - Adding tongue too soon. Yes, ultimately you will want to add some tongue to a passionate kiss, but it should be a build-up. Instead of injecting your tongue into your partner's mouth, a good kissing technique is to use it to gently moisten your partners lips, slowly and softly, taking note of signals inviting you to add your tongue, such as parting of lips or gentle suckling on your lips, they will naturally offer their tongue, at which point you go into tongue kissing. As passion builds and the gestures are obvious, you can use more tongue in intervals. Your tongue should be used as an extension of your lips, gently caressing around the lips and savouring just inside the mouth. - Attacking with your teeth. Your teeth can sometimes clash with theirs, especially when you attack your partner's mouth with so much force that your teeth are pressing into their mouth, you are going too far. Be careful to keep your teeth to yourself unless you are planning on using your newfound kissing techniques on a vampire. - Let your partner be the guide. If you are worried that your kissing is not up to par, let your partner kiss you, and simply react in a mirroring manner. Your partner will kiss you the way he or she likes to be kissed. If you return the favour by using the same methods, then you have a much better chance of a satisfying your partner - Add variety. It gets boring if you are using the same technique over and over. Start with a few gentle pecks. Then maybe kiss the lower lip a few times. Gently nibble their lips with your teeth. Change between greater and lesser passion in kissing. Do a little teasing with your lips, causing them to barely touch and then back away. - Not just the lips. Kissing other parts of the body can be arousing and sensual. Gently kissing the side of the neck does wonders as most people love being kissed on the neck. Experiment, and ask them what they like, then you are on to a sure winner

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